Appreciating the Wintertime

Contentment Before Marriage

2 min

Winter is not the favorite season for many people. Often, they think of wintertime as cold, gloomy, dark, and oppressive. The birds rarely sing. The sun sets early. The cold air makes it difficult for many to be outdoors. Gardens lay dormant, and deciduous trees stand bare of their foliage. Apart from the times when the landscape is covered with sparkling snow, many winter scenes are bleak with dull shades of colorless browns and grays.

In the Song of Solomon, the blooming of flowers and the singing of birds are pictures of the growth of romantic love. In chapter 2:10–13, King Solomon described a vivid picture of the anticipation of spring after the rain and cold of winter. “My beloved spake, and said unto me, Rise up, my love, my fair one, and come away. For, lo, the winter is past, the rain is over and gone; The flowers appear on the earth; the time of the singing of birds is come, and the voice of the turtle is heard in our land; The fig tree putteth forth her green figs, and the vines with the tender grape give a good smell. Arise, my love, my fair one, and come away.”

Many young people who are longing for marriage sometimes feel trapped by the icy bonds of winter. They long for the day that they fall in love, and on that day the sun will shine, the birds will sing, and the flowers will bloom once again. But in the good providence of our God, wintertime is just as important as springtime for the growth cycle of life.

Winter rest enriches the roots

The roots of a fruitful garden are rested and nourished during the winter months. Dead vegetation decays in autumn and is turned into nutrients that spring flowers and vegetables will need for growth. So also, wise young men and women gather up spiritual nourishment during the long “winter months” of singleness, preparing themselves for a day of fruitfulness.

Winter cold prepares the seed

Many seeds actually need a period of cold in order to germinate. Fruit seeds, such as those of the peach and apricot, need storage in a cold, moist environment in order to grow. In Bible lands, the trees that bear olives, figs, and dates rest during the cold months. Their sap goes deep down into the root system, storing vital nutrients. Similarly, the emotional “coldness” of single years deepens a man or woman and prepares the heart for the warming environment in which love will later germinate.

Winter rain and snow water the soil

The rain and snow of winter provides the long-term moisture that will yield fruitfulness in the spring months. Earthworms come near the surface of the ground during winter rains, aerating the soil and making channels for nutrients. A blanket of snow fixes nitrogen from the air into the ground, transforming it into a form that the roots can use. Never resent the rainy day of singleness nor the melting snow of winter, for each period of time prepares the soil (and the heart) for the blessings of the next season of life!

This article is from our Matters of Life & Death teaching series.

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